No one is perfect, including me. Therefore, I dislike others who assume themselves are perfect, assume themselves are always right and assume themselves are boss.
Recently, I was annoyed by someone, because he just like to act as perfect guy. I know that I’m not perfect, or literally not good in a lot of matters. Then, being advised is right, but I don like to be “advised” which I think I was being ‘scolded’ or “critic” is more proper word for that.
Excuse me, please know yourself before “advices” anyone, you are not a leader, not a brother, not a guardian, not a lecturer, not a senior, not a supervisor, not a boss…
As a friend, advising someone to correct from mistakes is encouraged, if necessary, but please advise in a proper way which is fit with the position, but not scolding or critics, like our parents or teachers. Friends must respect each other.
Second thing, since you are not a leader, not a brother, not a guardian, not a lecturer, not a senior, not a supervisor, not a boss… , please don’t act like a leader, brother, guardian, lecturer, senior, supervisor or a boss…, and control someone, “asking” someone to obey your order, follow your way… The reason is pretty simple, you are not qualify. Every one has freedom and respective way of life, a positive way of life.
Third, don’t always think you’re right, and don’t think others who oppose your position are wrong. You’re not a judge nor genius, if truths are yet to be decided, please proof before saying right or wrong.
If you made people not happy with you advise, meaning that you are failed in how to educate people, how you going to be an educator? Not every one, including your juniors or anyone under you supervisory can accept the kind of dictator-like supervisory or strict orders. Otherwise, your advises will jeopardize the situations.
Please, know yourself before you act as a perfect guy or boss.